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Posted (Van Santos) in Just Stuff on March-28-2009

This is not a criticism but it will sound like one – with a young child why would an individual engage in extreme, life threatening, activities?

Shane McConkey was, apparently, a top extreme athlete.  I know nothing about extreme sports but doing a quick search using my personal search assistant (the Google) it looks as if he was a decorated freestyle, extreme and base jumping skier.  

On March 27th he died during a base jump.

I have no issue with people deciding to life life in whatever way they see fit, but I simply do not understand why one would want to do such dangerous activities while being responsible for a young child.  

Now, I know some people will say that you take a chance every time you get behind the wheel of a car or when you cross a street but I think it is hard to compare every day activities with willingly throwing yourself off of a mountain and then trying to deploy a parachute.

Maybe this was all he knew of life, and maybe he didn’t want to be out of the sport, but the responsibilities that come with parenthood would seem to outweigh such activity – even if that was ones given profession.

Again, this is not a criticism..  I understand the difference in priorities between him and I play a factor but I simply do not understand how one could live such a lifestyle while having a child. It just sounds very selfish to me.  There is nothing wrong with selfish, just don’t have a child then…

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Comments:
Gianna on March 29th, 2009 at 7:40 am #

my brother in law does extreme shit and my sister hates it…they have three children all relatively young–two of them are only 7 and he’s been doing this since they were all infants.

he helicopter ski’s and he also goes down the most dangerous river water rapids known to human beings…and other stuff too…

she made him take out a massive life-insurance policy…of course they are wealthy in any case and money does nothing to help a child with the tragic loss of a parent…

I don’t get it either and frankly I do judge. i think it’s shitty parenting.

Van Santos on March 29th, 2009 at 8:46 pm #

I cannot even begin to think about jumping out of a helicopter! That is just wild.

Personally, I think it’s the best parenting, but I am not a parent and don’t think I am in a position to say yes or no. I know that I wouldn’t do it – to me it falls into that questionable parenting category as well.

Hey, who am I!

Gianna on March 29th, 2009 at 9:18 pm #

hey, Van,
can you do something so that we get email notifications about responses to comment threads?

Your blog is the only one (no there is one other) that doesn’t have this feature and I often almost forget to check back…and frankly it’s likely I do forget and just don’t know it…

you’re an IT god…can you fix it???

Gianna on March 29th, 2009 at 9:19 pm #

and I don’t use RSS feeds anymore…I have converted completely to google reader…so I don’t check feeds either…

Van Santos on March 29th, 2009 at 9:48 pm #

You know, this is something I need to take care of… I’ve been meaning to for some time, I’ll take a look at it tomorrow. I have it set up on the yeswecook one, but not this because I had some problems before. I’ll get off of my butt and take care of it!

As for the Google Reader, my feed should show up there if you add it – or am I misunderstanding on that one?

Anyway, thanks for the poke. I’ll take care of it!

Gianna on March 29th, 2009 at 10:38 pm #

i get your feed…I just don’t know when a thread I’m following gets comments!

Van Santos on March 29th, 2009 at 11:15 pm #

Ah! Gotcha.

I’ll take care of it.

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